Long Distance Relationship

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everyone

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Today, I wanna going to post Long Distance Relationship's about (cuba pretend sebagai Dr.Love today). Some people said, the long distance relationship, or we called it as PJJ (Percintaan Jarak Jauh), as a no ending relationship and for sure, face the difficulties how's to sustain the relationship.

Memang secara factnya, saya tidak layak "berbicara" tentang ini, ya lah, I'm not married yet and doesn't have any certificates as a penceramah. Just to shared only (#myblogsukahatisayalahkan. it's trend ah, Hashtag). Okay, let's make it simple story. I'm with Ex (my partner) about 6 years already. both of us are 27 years old, means we started date masa umur kami 21 years old. Ya, kami berdua berjauhan, saya sini Malaya dan Ex di Sabah. This entry kira bagi some tips lah, hopefully berguna lah kan.

so, here we go;

1).  Technology. 

Almost current technology help us. We have many social chat right know such as Whatsapp, wechat etc. Handphone is one of gadget that most important in our relationship to make us always connected. Thanks to Alexander Graham Bell for his idea invented first phone in the world. Guna lah tecknologi untuk berhubung dengan orang tersayang ya, pelbagai plan sdh ada skng. No reason lah tidak berhubung at all, at least if both of u busy the whole day, text her/him anything (make sure yang sweet2 lah). This is show that we still care for each other. when weekend, just give few minutes to call her/him. Just to hear the voices.

p/s: Jangan tunjuk ego masing-masing siapa mau call duluan.

2). Make you self busy or focus on your job.

Sometimes, I'm quite jealous when saw couples hang out together, dating. That's feeling tend people felt more bored to his/her PJJ's relationship. Start lah tu find a spare part kan, hanya tuk mengisi kekosongan itu. Try used yourself busy or focus to your job or study first, pasti, after that when you reach home from your workplace or school, just to decide to rest the whole night and wake-up for next morning (macam tiada wawasan ja, at least kan).

3). Find or make friends with  same gender as many as possible.

Me as a women, try to make girlfriends as many as possible because during weekend or your bored time, we can hang out with them (doing crazy thingy together). That's make your life more merrier. Bagusnya tambah kenalan baru kan.

P/S: Gembira gembira juga tapi jangan lupa orang jauh. Make sure minta kebenaran dulu sebelum chilaxing with your girlfriends.

4) Join or participate any programs or activities.

During my study, I used my self join a Dance's club and participate Uni's or our course's programs. This is help you to relax your mind and kasi hilang rasa lonely-lonely tu. Plus, you can adds certificates yang kamu ada masa skng ini. Hehe. If you a religious person, try to join any activities at your punya tempat ibadat. Since I'm a religious person too, I used my self involved any church's activities as part of my compulsory activities. Siok ini. Boleh berkongsi berkat yang Tuhan bagi. 

P/S: supaya tidak lah menangis menonggeng sendiri2 kesunyian.

5). Your self-motivated.

Iya lah, pelbagai cara kamu untuk tidak rasa hubungan kamu tidak akan berpanjangan, if your mind already control you, fail juga lah resultnya. Try to ask yourself first, why both of you needs to separated in temporary, commitment you as a partner to him/her in your relationship, the goals in your relationship. If saja2 jawabnya, ehm itu tidak payah cakaplah kan. Ada problems jangan lari dari problems, you needs to terus terang and face it to find the solutions. Mesti ada rasa yakin pada pasangan masing2, no doubting, no jealousy, no negative mind and don't be over obsessed with your partner.

The most important is both of you believe in God. Keeps in faith together. Always pray for each other, the relationship, let's follow the God ways. For me, in searching a MR.Right , ask him/her whose the first place in her/his heart, if she/he answer "you". It's totally wrong, If you a believer, told her/him to put God in the first place in our heart before any name of human being. 

Mazmur 119: 127

"Itulah sebabnya aku mencintai perintah-perintahMu lebih

dari pada emas, bahkan dari pada emas tua."

xoxo

Hannisth Jonney

Jeremiah 29:11

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everyone

Yeremia 29:11

"Sebab Aku ini mengetahui rancangan-rancangan apa yang ada padaKu mengenai kamu, demikianlah firman TUHAN, yaitu rancangan damai sejathera dan bukan rancangan kecelakaan, untuk memberikan kepadamu hari depan yang penuh harapan".

 Sometimes, when I saw  all of my job applications, always worried what the results. yeah!, I'm kinda desperate or that's really desperate person to getting a job. Regretting everything what I've plan in my life, especially what I choose for my future. You went a few interview (my friends said I'm lucky person because I've been through a lots of interview session), but sadly, your waiting (almost dying) for several days what the result is and no feedback anything. I'm blame myself why I'm not struggle for SPM, masuk Matrikulasi or diploma and finish the study in not much aged or that much earlier than present. Blaming my life because why I'm not born in millionaire family background so that's am no needs to worries what happen for my future.

Yeah! sound more blaming to God, actually. I'm crying and pray, asking God why and what questions. 

God give me this words, Jeremiah 29:11. He knows everything what I plan for my life, His such give me a small challenge, to underestimate my Faith, sejauh mana Iman percaya kita kepadaNya. Now, I know I'm crying today, it's doesn't mean we are crying forever. God is good all the time, His is provider, who knows the God plans to us much better than what we have plans. 

So,

 pray, hope and wait.

Everything will be alright.

xoxo

Hannisth Jonney

Jobless

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everyone

its been a long time not updating my blog. Still sayang pla kan mau delete. If your guys have time sy da 1 lagi blog, if not mistaken "itssomethingtosharewith" kah tajuknya.

I'll already go through that blog, sangat lah kebudak-budakan. Grammar tunggang langang bah, and blog yang paling siok sendiri, I think. And, of course, someone who not so popular like mine, memang syok sendiri spanjang zaman lah. At least, adalah something your guys boleh ketawa2 and jerking around when read this blog. Ahak! (annoying sgt bah!).

Hello again, I was thinking, what should i put in my blog; beauty, inspiration words, tips, vacations and opinions about current issues. Wah! so limited bah my knowledge, I know everything but that's not truly enough knowledge about "everything" to share with. I'll try not to copying and pasting bah this time, and put lyric in my blog. Hehe.

I already deleted some of my posts, okay not some but all of my posts. Bikin malu bah. sy fikir x ngam mau shared. Haha.

Other Note;

Jobless, yeah! that's me. I'm not officially graduated yet, I'm taking Bachelor in chemistry (Forensic Analysis) for those who dont know what I have study at UiTM Shah Alam. I already put my efforts apply anything kind of jobs in anything Job Haunting website. Boleh lah, a few dapat interview tapi ada 3 lah setakat ini kira dapat. Syukur.

HOWEVER,

The 3 of them not my academic scope, they are  marketing executive (cari org buat invest), Customer service and production executive (actually, I apply for this company as a chemist tapi diaorang ckp no vacancy for the moment). Saya berminat juga production but than, because I'm a fresh graduate, they gave me RM 1500 only as basic salary. Bukan lah bah demand, but the lives yang demand, with GST lagi, everything needs money bah. At least, bagi lah kan RM 1800, hidup di bandar pla tu. I know lah bah fresh graduate, tp buduh sgt kah buat kerja kalu fresh graduate pun, no kan. If I have experiences, mampu kah bagi RM 3000, kan.

*Not standard lah bah company area KL tu*

For me, as a fresh graduate kan, not salah bah, you give them RM 2k plus2, yeah! if saya, bersemangat sy kerja tu. Tau kan, in the end of month, a good remuneration. Hehe.  Begini lah ni hidup mencari kerja sendiri, lain lah you already study in gov punya (spa8), confirm tunggu posting lagi. Anyway, this is life, nothing beautiful if doesn't no difficulties and hardness. Needs to accept the challenges and face them. Pray hard, too. 

P/S: Nak duit banyak, jadi boss ler. 

xoxo

Hannisth Jonney

penyertaanmu sempurna

JalanMu tak terselami
Oleh setiap hati kami
Namun satu hal ku percaya
Ada rencana yang indah
Tiada terduga kasihMu
Heran dan besar bagiku
Arti kehadiranMu slalu
Nyata di dalam hidupku

Reff :
Penyertaanmu sempurna
RancanganMu penuh damai
Aman dan sejahtera walau di tengah badai
Ingin ku slalu bersama
Rasakan keindahan

Arti kehadiranMu Tuhan

my convocation...

date: 13.may.2012
venue: Dewan Agung Cansellor UiTM...

shared with you with some pictures of mine..

^_^

i'm proud to be sabahan

I'm Sabahan ! Don't even think to change my status..

You Are REAL SABAHAN when :

* u say " saaaaaanaa " just to show how far that place is .
* u pout ur lips && turn to the direction to show where things are .
* u answer " ah ? " when people call your name .
* the word " bah " can be used in almost all the situations .
* u refer ur dad as " boss " or " beliau " .
* u refer the waiter at restaurant as " boss " as well .
* u were asked " are u Indonesian ? " by some outsiders when they heard u speak .
* u know what pindik² tagap means .
* u like to sing (not entirely true . haha) .
* u can use " gia " && " bah " properly .
* if someone ask for help , u will reply with " Boleh bah kalau kaw " .
* favourite word " ARAMAI TII " when " kogutan liquor " .

-limpas (to pass/walk by - Maaf, saya limpas dulu? Excuse me, can I passby?
-tapuk (to hide )
-bida (ugly)
-bubut (as in proper malay- "kejar", to chase)
-sakai (ignorant, uncivilized, "hoosier")
-andang-andang (that's how it is)
-sapak (kasi campur/gaul -- utk masakan- or mix as in cooking)
-inda/tia (short form of "tidak" - not, no)
-wicin (another brand of msg as in "aji-no-moto" - a seasoning or food enhancer)
-talampau (proper malay - "terlampau"- too much)
-takajut (proper malay - "terkejut" - shocked, startled)
-siorang (proper malay -"kami"/ "saya - orang" - us, we)
-ngam-ngam (proper malay "kebetulan,cun-cun" - exact, at that time)
-mangkali (proper malay "barangkali" - maybe, perhaps)
-kamarin (proper malay "kelmarin" - yesterday)
-kasi kawan (proper malay "temankan")

~~Proud to be SABAHAN~~